HInts of Rejection

I am sure many of us experienced dates where you're just not interested. Maybe it was a blind date or perhaps you found something on the second date that made you say "no thanks, not the one".

Rejection can be a hard thing to face, so you should put them down gently. Here's are some ways to give strong signs that you're not interested without hurting their egos or feelings.

1)We all know that the question is gonna pop up. You know what i am talking about the famous "What do you look for in guy/girl?". Here's your chance to tell them that their not the one. Be sure, to give examples that are opposite of your partner. Examples: "I like tall guys, they have to be at least 5'11" for me to be attracted to them" -when your date is like 5'5".

2) If you have a friend or date that likes you but you don't feel the same way here's a good way to show signs of it. The classic "I look at you like a sister/brother." Another good one is "I see you more as a friend." This way they have no room to get mad at you. Matter of fact they still feel special that they think of them in such a manner.

3)Sometimes honestly can be good. Express how you can't find a relationship in your life because of how difficult your life is. Good examples:"I am so busy with my career". This gives you more room to get distant from your date.

Some people can't take no for a answer. They might know that your not interested yet they still try to catch your interest. In times like these, you have to take a more direct approach.

1) I know this can be rude but its the ultimate killer in dates. Check out other people around you while your with your date. Make sure they are watching yet pretend you don't notice them watching. Hopefully then they will back off.

2)Silence is a good key to distance yourself from your date. Keep the answers short to "yes" or "no". Eventually they will stop asking questions. This is a good way to stop them from starting conversations.

3)Keep looking at your watch. You should state that you need to head home early because of .....well make some excuse.

4)At the end of the date, express how the night was interesting and hope that they don't mention a second date. If they do mention it, don't say no that's too harsh. Let them know that you'll try but its unlikely because of your schedule or some other excuse you can think of.

These techniques will help you let your date down easily with no feeling of guilt yet no chains attached after the date is done. I am sure eventually you will find the perfect date but until then try these techniques.